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Individualization: Loves the Uniqueness of Others

People exceptionally talented in the Individualization CliftonStrengths® theme are intrigued with the unique qualities of each person. They have a gift for figuring out how different people can work together productively.

Your Individualization theme leads you to be intrigued by the unique qualities of each person. You are impatient with generalizations or “types” because you don’t want to obscure what is special and distinct about each person. Instead, you focus on the differences between individuals.

You instinctively observe each person’s style, each person’s motivation, how each thinks, and how each builds relationships. You hear the one-of-a-kind stories in each person’s life. This theme explains why you pick your friends just the right birthday gift, why you know that one person prefers praise in public and another detests it, and why you tailor your teaching style to accommodate one person’s need to be shown and another’s desire to “figure it out as I go.”

Because you are such a keen observer of other people’s strengths, you can draw out the best in each person. This Individualization theme also helps you build productive teams. While some search around for the perfect team “structure” or “process,” you know instinctively that the secret to great teams is casting by individual strengths so that everyone can do a lot of what they do well.

This is a Relationship Building Talent Theme

Those with dominant themes in the Relationship Building Domain can provide the essential glue to hold a team together. Without these strengths on a team, in many cases, the group is simply a composite of individuals. In contrast, team members with exceptional Relationship Building strength have the unique ability to help the group become much greater than the sum of its parts.

Individualization (Short Version)
Theme Thursday
Action Items for This Theme
  • Select a vocation in which your Individualization theme can be both appreciated and used, such as counseling, supervising, teaching, writing human interest articles or selling. Your ability to see people one by one is a special talent.
  • Become an expert in describing your own strengths and style. For example, answer questions such as these: What is the best praise you ever received? How often do you like to check in with your manager? What is your best method for building relationships? How do you learn best?
  • Ask these same questions of your colleagues and friends. Help them plan their future by starting with their strengths, then designing a future based on what they do best.
  • Make your colleagues and friends aware of each person’s unique needs. Soon people will look to you to explain other people’s motivations and actions.
  • Study successful people to discover the uniqueness that made them successful.
  • Consider that you might be able to write a novel.

Be ready to:

  • Help others understand that true diversity can be found in only the subtle differences between each individual, regardless of race, sex, or nationality.
  • Explain that it is appropriate, just, and effective to treat each person differently. Those without strong Individualization might not see the differences among individuals and might insist that Individualization is unequal and therefore unfair. You will need to describe your perspective in detail in order to be persuasive.
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(Adapted from Gallup CliftonStrengths® website, www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths)
Copyright © 2020 Gallup, Inc. All rights reserved. Gallup®, CliftonStrengths®, and each of the 34 CliftonStrengths® theme names are trademarks of Gallup, Inc.

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and
𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘨𝘰𝘰𝘥 𝘦𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩
and
𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘤𝘢𝘯’𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘭𝘺,
𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘵 all.

It has you carrying 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐟𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.
A weight.
Smooth, cold, impossibly heavy.
A stone so flawless
you’re afraid to put it down
because you might
chip it.
You might
fail.

So you stand there.
Holding it.
Going nowhere.

—

Now imagine
letting it
go.

Hear it thud on the ground.
Leave it there.

And instead,
pick up 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬.

Progress is a different kind of stone.
Warm from your grip.
Rough with texture.
It has scratches from where you dropped it
yesterday.
And the day before.
It has your fingerprints
all over it.

This stone—
you don’t just 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘺 it.
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You push it uphill.
It gains momentum.
Sometimes it rolls over your own feet.
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You chose the stone. 
You chose to move. 

—

Progress
isn’t the absence of failure.

It’s
failure,
learned from,
woven into the story,
turned into footing
for the next step.

So here’s the choice, the only one that matters:

The flawless, immovable stone...
or the scarred, moving one?

The monument...
or the path?

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